PERSONAL BLOG

Hey friends!

You guise have been no more than amazing to me and I want to thank all of you. I’m going for the kill and not beat around the bush. I have decided to create a separate blog for all my personal or lifestyle stuff. You might be wondering why.. It’s because; 

I want to organize my blog. If you check how much I post about my life on this blog, and check how much I post about motivational talks, you’ll notice that it’s very imbalance. 

My other blog will be dedicated to my personal or lifestyle stuff while this one will be strictly on writing, and motivational talks. 

Thank you so much for understanding! 

Please visit and follow my personal blog: mylifeslemonsblog.wordpress.com

Thank you again friends! 

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EARLY MORNING

Every morning my husband and I have made it our routine to have breakfast in bed. Of course, he is the one who gets up since I get to get up throughout the night because of our little boy. He makes us both oatmeal with honey. Well, this time atleast. Because usually it’s with Nutella. Yes! With Nutella. Please try it! 

You’re all on my mind this beautiful morning! 

LET’S GET PERSONAL


Hello guise!! 

Words cannot explain how much this blog means to me. It is one of my thoughts’ outlets. I started a blog originally for a personal diary of thoughts. No filters and everything. In fact, I did not even expect people to notice but then there you guys are! It makes me really happy to see that people actually read my posts.

Of course, the dream of becoming one of the famous bloggers were in mind but I know I am far from that. I simply want to talk away. Almost without thinking of what I’m writing. Kind of like just having a conversation with myself. When I saw you guise comment on my stuff, it really makes my day. It’s like realizing I’m not really too much of a loser as I thought I was. Haha. 

I know. My post are very very casual. Like texting almost. And this is how I want it to be. Really simple. In fact, I blog via phone most of the time! 

I have learned to love this blogging thing. I feel the need to update it, every other day. If not daily. 

I just would like to say thank you!!!  You all make me feel so appreciated. 

I take photographs of almost everything. From what I’m eating to what I’m looking at. I ask myself all the time why I don’t pursue photography… Maybe I will. We shall see.
 But anyway, I would like to get personal with you all, and connect more of you would like of course. My Instagram name is mylifeslemons. You all are more than welcome to follow me there and see what I am up to at anytime. 
Thank you again my friends! 

YOU CANNOT HEAL BY GOING BACK TO WHAT BROKE YOU

We cry when we get hurt. It takes a little bit of time to heal. Some people take weeks, months or even years to get over something that broke them. It will take a whole lot of effort to pick up the pieces and glue yourself back together. This is just one of the few consequences of letting your guards down. 

You’ll feel like there’s nothing left for you. Because you’ve given your everything, it’s hard to picture a tomorrow without that missing piece. It will feel like that for a while. Some people get over it, some just get used to it. It’s a matter of how you deal with it to still function or how you want people to see you. 

Fake it til you make it. When you walk around making it obvious that you’ve been hurt, people will ask. People ask either because they’re concerned, but really some people ask just because they’re nosy. Which is true 80% of the time. So sometimes, putting a front, smiling your way to recovery helps a lot. It helps trick your mind that you’re happy. People will stop asking, and the more you don’t talk about what broke you, the faster you heal. 

You will not heal by going back to what broke you.  After getting hurt, you do your best to glue yourself back in place. You do things you’ve never done before and you start to venture outside your comfort zone for the sake of your own sanity and recovery. Hoping there’s really something out there for you and start to believe it. It took you so much to get where you are and then one day, all that is threathened by a knock from the past. It’s a disaster in disguise. Some people won’t see it coming and they get sucked back in. Just like that. But a few will learn what the differences between what’s better and what’s not. Hopefully, you choose not to get drowned like before. 

Everyday is a challenge. But knowing you’re getting yourself back should be more than enough of a motivation. Because you belong to you first and you deserve yourself before someone else.