Have you ever liked someone so much that all you want to do is think about them or do stuff with them? Whether go boating, hiking or just simply watch a movie or stay home and be couch potatoes. You suggest all these things so you two can spend quality time together but then she hints that “you are showing too much interest.” And then she starts to take a step back or so you think. So, you sit there and think it is your fault because you should not have showed too much interest in the first place. Now you are worried that you blew it. You start to justify why she’s doing what she’s doing because you like her. Of course.
I’m here to tell you that you shouldn’t. You shouldn’t worry and you shouldn’t think you did anything wrong. It is normal for a person to want to spend as much time with someone they really like. The problem is not you. It’s the other person. She’s just not interested enough. Simple as that. You need to find someone who is worth all your attention. If not, you will always feel like you have to hold yourself back. Which you should not. Wouldn’t you want her to do the same? If she likes you just as much as you like her, she would do just the same.