You think you’re okay until you wake up at 3 in the morning sobbing your heart out remembering everything that you once had but now so out of your reach. It’s okay. Cry it all out. Cry until you run out of tears. Cry as loud as you need to. Hit a pillow. Cry to a pillow. Burry your face in it. Scream. Stay up if you need to. Cry it all out. Don’t go back to sleep until you feel a tad bit better. Cry until your eyes hurt, until they’re red, until they’re swollen. After all, you need it. Let all your emotions out. You deserve it. Don’t keep it all in. You don’t want those to stay in your heart. The moment you close your eyes and fall deep into sleep, you will have the best sleep of your life. You will wake up, maybe not close to happy, but you’ll wake up with heavy eyes and you’ll wake up hungry. You will want to eat and please do something for yourself. Run. Jog. Walk. Ride a bike. This is just a start.
IT’S OKAY TO BE NEGATIVE
Hey, you don’t have to be always positive you know. As someone who loves to express how I feel and what I think here on my blog. I can’t help but feel the pressure to be always positive about things around me. I was worse a month ago I can tell you that. But I got over it. Somehow. I still feel pressure sometimes because well, I have the urge to push people up. Just go. Go up and not look back. You know what I mean? But I always remind myself that I’m only human. Surprise! I think of negative stuff too. I judge. I get sad. I feel emotional. Like you. I always try to remind myself that this blog is original and raw. I’m not going to pretend to be someone who only think of happy thoughts and you shouldn’t be too. I mean, how I wish I am that kind of person. Even though I don’t think there’s anyone here who do not get sad. Because we all do. So, yeah. Don’t be ashamed about being negative. After all, negative thoughts are what makes positive thoughts more special. Embrace them. Nag all you want. Because I will.
NOT EVERYONE IS GOING TO LOVE YOU
Not everyone is going to love you. Most people don’t even love themselves so when you come across someone who do not see you as lovable, don’t fret. Don’t stress. Don’t even overthink about it. Just go on with your life and continue to spread love. Some people just choose to live a miserable life and that’s not your fault. Keep smiling. Keep your head up. People will say some negative and discouraging comments along the way. It shouldn’t surprise you. You’re better than any of them and you know better than to entertain those petty comments. You have a wonderful life to live and a great future ahead of you. Let them say mean things and just reply with a smile. They need it. Trust me. And then you can go home and pray for them. Feel sorry for them. Because they’re missing out.
IT’S BETTER TO SAY TOO MUCH, THAN NEVER TO SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY
Are you tired of sitting there dealing with your crappy relationship? Are you sitting there contemplating about what you’re doing wrong? Because the chemistry is there, but the relationship just feels weird and uncomfortable? Well let me enlighten you. I hope by the time you’re done reading this whole thing, you’ll look back and reflect on yourself and maybe help out your partner.
A lot of relationship fail because they lack communication. No, it’s not always the dishonesty. Because if you love someone, you communicate and some decide to work on their issues such us dishonesty. While there are a lot of posible issues a relationship can have, it really goes down to the two of you still believing the relationship is worth it. Yes. You two would have to agree on that one thing, that’s basically the life of your relationship. It takes two to tango. Now, when you’re done with that, you have to keep in mind and basically tattoo this in your mind, COMMUNICATE!!!! You can’t sit there and expect your other half to read your mind. Your other half is not a magician and even if he was, he shouldn’t have to try to read your mind. If you love a person, you should be open to them so that you two can fix the problem or work on whatever is bothering you. It’s really that simple. And that’s it. Just.. Talk.
“IT’S BETTER TO SAY TOO MUCH, THAN NEVER TO SAY WHAT YOU NEED TO SAY.” -John Mayer
WHEN SOMEONE COULD SHOW YOU HEAVEN, THAT PERSON COULD SHOW YOU HELL TOO
When someone could show you heaven, that same person can also show you hell. Don’t be naive and think otherwise. Don’t be one sided. Don’t be biased. Don’t deprive yourself of the ugly truth. Save yourself from the pain and time feeling bitter later on. In general, it’s always good to remember this little simple fact. Just like when someone earns your trust, they’re also capable of breaking it in less than a second like it was nothing. And I know what you’re thinking. Nobody likes to walk around with this little Debbie downer phrase but it’s really worth it. The sooner you accept this, the better for you. It’s simply accepting the fact that anyone who is capable of putting a smile on your face has a power to turn it upside down. Consider it normal.
WHEN YOU DON’T LOVE THE THINGS THE WAY YOU USED TO
Sometimes, you just don’t love the things the way you used to. It hurts. It hurts because this used to be the reason you wake up everyday, the reason for your smiles and for the little heat waves in your stomach from time to time. but now you’re confused. So you try find a reason why and try to find a reason to stay. You try to find the spark that was there before but realize it’s impossible to get it back. Because you just can’t. The more you force yourself to love it again and stay, the more you feel weird and just not yourself. You think of the memories you have and wish things could go back the way they were. You want to feel it again and you don’t want to lose the love that you had. But then again, you sit there and realize that you’ve already lost it. It left you and you’re not sure why and when. So you hang on to the memories and treasure them. It’s okay to feel sorry, you didn’t do anything wrong after all. Just be thankful of the fact that you’ve experience a wonderful thing.