Hello guise! I hope all of you are having a great day. I thought to give you an update of what’s been going on in my personal life lately. But before that, I would like to thank you again for showing your nonstop support through likes and follows! Much much appreciated! 

Yes! I went completely blonde. It took a lot of patience to get to where my hair is now. A lot of conditioning and hydrating masks. Also, making homemade hair toners so that I don’t have to use as much peroxide on my own hair. Thanks to the Internet. Will be posting about the toner soon since I am still experimenting. I have been obsessed with selfies lately. If you don’t already follow me on Instagram, you can check my selfies out at spoiledchats on IG and be my friend! 

Book of the week still. Leaving Time by Jodi Picoult. I have been dragging my butt from finishing this book, but my aim is to finish it by the end of the week since I just purchased two more books to read. I am also open to any suggestions about what to read. Just to give you an idea of what I like to read, I like suspense, mystery or WWII love stories. 

I know I have mentioned in the past that my husband was on a hunt for a good inside plant for more oxygen for the baby. He settled on this. It’s lily. He waters it every other day and I am actually surprise that he has not neglected it. So proud of him!

And finally, today I assembled Kostandin’s bassinet. It is so cute!!!! I can say I am about done being pregnant. I am ready to meet him and hold him. Wish me luck you guise. I have two more weeks!


When you love somebody, everywhere you go, you take a piece of them with you. Everything that you see, it becomes a painting of a part of them. When you love someone, everything that you hear, makes you think of them. A song, a humming, or even a news flash about a place. Everything that you smell always back tracks to them. Your heart smiles more  and you feel it beat a little faster especially when you hear a song that describes strong emotions towards someone. A love song. It gets embroided to your heart, so anytime and everytime  you hear it, you automatically think of the person that you love and where you first heard that song. When you love somebody, everything seems to taste ten times better. All of a sudden your taste buds are happy too. When you love somebody, you care more for yourself and take care of yourself well. Physically or emotionally. When you love somebody, you become dreamy and happy. When you love somebody, you start to love life a little more and more each day. 


Forgiving someone is hard especially if there’s a lot of feelings attached. When we hear the word forgive, somehow we think of losing. Our prides got hurt, why should we forgive? We forgive because we deserve to be happy. Forgiving means accepting the fact that you got hurt but that doesn’t mean you trust the person again. It just means you’re letting go. Forgiving is accepting the fact that people make mistakes, at the same time giving yourself what you deserve. Freedom from the bitterness most people feel when they hold on for too long. You forgive because you do not want to be miserable and get stuck. You forgive because you are the better person. 


Learn to let go without closure because in reality, that is something you’re not going to always get. You’re lucky if you’re dealing with someone who isn’t selfish, but even so, you should learn to not expect it from anyone. Learn how to trust your own judgement and know when to walk away. Be strong enough to know what you deserve. Don’t be naive and still believe that people will tell you when they don’t want to be in your life anymore. It’s easier for them to ignore and walk away. This is why you should always leave something of yourself, for yourself.