Great things are going to happen. Keep fighting and keep your head up. People are going to stand in your way. There are going to be a lot of temptations in the way that will make you think twice about your goals. You won’t understand your emotions and the weather will confuse you. People will be mean. People will tempt you to settle. People will try to convince you to stay. You will witness some things that will discourage you. There are going to be some new ideas made to divert your attention from what you’re set to do and what you promised yourself to do. You are going to be tired, exhausted and you’re going to doubt what you’re capable of. You’re going to wonder if you’re really meant to acheive your goal. But keep fighting and don’t worry. as long as you’re giving your best, it will all work out and you wil get there. 


Growing up we are all familiar with broken promises. Living in this world at a short period of time I figured you can’t always trust people’s words. Humans, we often promise when we are the happiest. And make accusations when we are angry that later on we regret. We say things that we don’t mean when we are mad and some of us are kind of used to it to the point where we don’t believe anything a person says when they’re mad. I don’t recall when that became normal. I guess I just learned how to adapt. I don’t want to sound like a Debbie downer, but when you fall in love, it’s okay to absorb what they tell you, that they love you and that they’ll do anything for you. But don’t be naive to believe all of it. Trust actions more. Wait for a little bump that life will throw at you one day and see if they still feel the same. Don’t be blinded with words. If they stick around, good. Life is not all rainbows and butterflies. That’s why sometimes, words are not enough. 


One thing I learned growing up, and that is that life is full of surprises. You wish and hope for one thing, sometimes you get it, sometimes not. When you don’t happen to get it, somehow something better always comes to place. So I learned to let things go. I learned to let things work and fall into their right places. It’s hard to be patient and it’s hard to just sit back and watch things work their own magic, but sometimes it’s the best thing to do. The earlier you realize that there are some things that you just can’t control, the better for you. Less stress and weight on your shoulders and the happier you are. 


A lot of people take for granted what they have. Whether it’s a person or a thing. Maybe it’s part of human nature? I don’t know. We tend to want more and more. We become greedy. Even I am guilty of it. It’s so easy to forget to appreciate what I have infront of me. And to think, the things that we want more are the things that we don’t really need. Upgrading our phones, closet collections, I could go on and on. It’s like we get stuck in this greedy cloud and it’s hard to get out of it. The more we are in it, the more we float away from the ground and then it gets even harder and harder to get out of it.  

Snap out of it. Always remember that someone out there is enjoying life with having less than what you have. Starving children from third world countries. When I was a child, my parents always told me to think of them when I get greedy. Then I would feel bad and end up praying for them instead. We need to think and appreciate what we have. Because if we all did, the world would be such a better place. 


Hello guise! I hope all of you are having a great day. I thought to give you an update of what’s been going on in my personal life lately. But before that, I would like to thank you again for showing your nonstop support through likes and follows! Much much appreciated! 

Yes! I went completely blonde. It took a lot of patience to get to where my hair is now. A lot of conditioning and hydrating masks. Also, making homemade hair toners so that I don’t have to use as much peroxide on my own hair. Thanks to the Internet. Will be posting about the toner soon since I am still experimenting. I have been obsessed with selfies lately. If you don’t already follow me on Instagram, you can check my selfies out at spoiledchats on IG and be my friend! 

Book of the week still. Leaving Time by Jodi Picoult. I have been dragging my butt from finishing this book, but my aim is to finish it by the end of the week since I just purchased two more books to read. I am also open to any suggestions about what to read. Just to give you an idea of what I like to read, I like suspense, mystery or WWII love stories. 

I know I have mentioned in the past that my husband was on a hunt for a good inside plant for more oxygen for the baby. He settled on this. It’s lily. He waters it every other day and I am actually surprise that he has not neglected it. So proud of him!

And finally, today I assembled Kostandin’s bassinet. It is so cute!!!! I can say I am about done being pregnant. I am ready to meet him and hold him. Wish me luck you guise. I have two more weeks!


When you love somebody, everywhere you go, you take a piece of them with you. Everything that you see, it becomes a painting of a part of them. When you love someone, everything that you hear, makes you think of them. A song, a humming, or even a news flash about a place. Everything that you smell always back tracks to them. Your heart smiles more  and you feel it beat a little faster especially when you hear a song that describes strong emotions towards someone. A love song. It gets embroided to your heart, so anytime and everytime  you hear it, you automatically think of the person that you love and where you first heard that song. When you love somebody, everything seems to taste ten times better. All of a sudden your taste buds are happy too. When you love somebody, you care more for yourself and take care of yourself well. Physically or emotionally. When you love somebody, you become dreamy and happy. When you love somebody, you start to love life a little more and more each day.