I am tired of reading and hearing girls moan about how they cannot find a man that will do this and this and that. Apparently they can’t find a guy who would take them out on a decent date, pull out chairs and open doors for them. They can’t find a guy that would tell them they’re beautiful and talk about them with his friends, or kiss their foreheads. Well let me tell you something, you can’t find them because you are looking at the wrong direction. How can you expect those behaviors from anyone really, when you are at the club looking for them. How can you complain about commitment when you are always in bars letting other guys pick you up? I am not saying there are no good guys that hang around those places, I’m saying that those places are meant for people who just wants to have fun or maybe a little break. Not a destination to look for your forever love.