If you want to take charge of your own life, work on your mind. Work on how you filter or choose your thoughts. What you think about is what consumes you and affects your mood and your attitude towards everything. I believe it when people say “it’s all in your head”. It all starts in your head as well. Anything that goes through your head, anything that you decide to focus on is what will consume you. You need to learn how to select your thoughts the same way you choose your clothes everyday. Control your mind, don’t let it control you. Once you learn how to do that, you then are capable of anything.