Every girl wants to hold hands with a guy who is known. A guy who is wanted by many. Because girls love the feeling of being chosen. We like to feel special. We want other girls to envy who we are with and the relationship we are in. Most of the time we care more about what we can brag about and we don’t realize how unfair we are being to ourselves. Girls think more about what a boy can offer them in public rather than what they can offer in the future and when it comes to trust and emotions. Girls care more about matching outfits rather than being on the same page when it comes to commitments and then turn around and cry about being mislead. You’ve been misleading yourself all along. Look for someone who can accept your flaws and look at them as what makes you perfect. Search for someone who encourages you to be you, rather not someone who will force you to be “normal”. Look for someone who you can be in the same boat with because that is what’s important when you’re both facing challenges. Fall inlove with someone who enjoys your madness, not an idiot who forces you to become something you’re not.